If your parents divorced when you were young, you were probably affected by the breakdown fo their marriage. Divided loyalties, secrets kept from the other parent, one life lived in two separate houses—these may have been par for the course. With this guide, you will learn that the effects of the divorce are not permanently harmful. Find out how to forgive your parents, discover new ways to enrich your own relationships and learn that there are alternative realities available. Divorce experts and psychologists Jeffrey Zimmerman, Ph.D., and Elizabeth S. Thayer Ph.D., show you how to recognize how your parents’ divorce influenced your life, resulting in disruptions such as relationship failures due to financial reasons, difficulties with commitment, and repeated situations that “just don’t seem to work out.” They provide techniques to help you understand and overcome these and other issues common to adult children of divorced parents. Zimmerman and Thayer focus on helping you learn how to build self-esteem, become resilient, establish healthy boundaries, communicate clearly, open up to trust, show love, believe in commitment and deal with vulnerable feelings.
Seventy now-adult children of divorce give their candid and often heart-wrenching answers to eight questions (arranged in eight chapters, by question), including: What were the main effects of your parents' divorce on your life?
Overlooked in the issues that affect couples divorcing later in in life are the adult children of divorcing parents. Their voices open this book, and they are the voices of men and women, 18 to 50 years old.
Instructs adults how to deal with parents who are getting divorced late in life and how to cope with their own distress
I Don't Want to Choose: How Middle School Kids Can Avoid Choosing One Parent over the Other by Amy J. L. Baker and Katherine Andre (Kindred Spirits, 2009) Offers children the tools they need to deal with dilemma of being forced to ...
Divided into chapters that address the specific needs of children as they grow up, Emery: • Introduces his Hierarchy of Children’s Needs in Divorce • Provides specific advice for successful parenting, starting with infancy and ...
In this book for adult children of divorce, Abbas helps them to understand the gives them the tools to create a dramatically different legacy.
This book examines the impact of PAS on adults and offers strategies and hope for dealing with the long-term effects.
In the compassionatede illuminates the road to recovery for adult children of divorce. Filled with rarelyt the divorce process that will be of interest to parents considering divorce.
Healing Adult Children of Divorce examines the long-term effects of this traumatic event and puts readers on the road to healing.
Chained No More is a curriculum which includes a Leader Guide AND a Participant Book (sold separately) “Chained No More is a program that will minister healing and hope to anyone who has been touched by the pain of divorce.