This book gives young female American Africans and any other African descents from high school aged and up, an edge over their competition in the dating world with the keys to understanding the mindset of guys to give her a chance to survive the gauntlet of growing pains that come with being raised without a balanced father figure in the home to teach them how to determine the type of mate that will give her a higher percentage of acquiring a long-term committed and loving relationship that so many young ladies seek with a man. Social Media and the online dating experience has giving the youth such false hope in navigating their way to marriage with a healthy relationship with a real man to the point this book had to be birthed. I lay out the checklist of things to know before you become a partner or bare children to the wrong guy and ultimately destroy or extremely limit your marital options for your entire life!