In this moving memoir Jonathan Dollimore recounts a life dedicated to understanding the delight and disorder of human desire. He writes candidly about his teenage attraction to risk and danger; of wounding motorcycle crashes and lucky escapes; of sexual curiosity as a flight from boredom; of suicidal depression and sexual ecstasy, of his discovery of love and literature and his adventures cruising in the gay subcultures of late twentieth-century New York, Brighton, and Sydney. For more than thirty years Dollimore has been one of contemporary culture’s most influential critics of politics, literature, and sexuality. Desire: A Memoir is a hybrid of autobiography, meditation, and philosophy that explores the existential sources of his writing. Effortlessly blending the tragic and comic, Dollimore’s unique voice relates a life haunted and torn by loss, and the at once intensely personal yet universal experience of suffering and longing.
all one's desire , as men can do too easily now , the source of the individual's and society's vitality is depleted . As Shweytima's comments reflect , desire may be troublesome and threatening , but it is also absolutely necessary .
Models of Desire: René Girard and the Psychology of Mimesis
As we considered in Chapter 2, Aristotle claims that the ultimate source of motivation, what moves us 'first of all', is grasping the prospect of some object of desire through the capacity of thought or phantasia (De an.
with a comparison between desire for knowledge and desire for wealth.101 In this context, Dante describes desire as a pyramidal structure, where the base is the ultimate desire (for God) and the tip the minimal desire.102 With an image ...
Desire's Command
In Enduring Desire, authors Michael Metz and Barry McCarthy inspire and motivate readers with real-life examples and clear, helpful individual and couple exercises to reach for realistic and high quality sexual satisfaction as a couple.
... of their union and, despite all, he can refuse her and walk away. But how can he ignore a bond such as theirs—one so much stronger than reason? Despite several unnerving attacks mounted against them, despite the uncertainty racking.
When her father dies a mysterious death, Star Tremayne vows to find out what really killed him, and she befriends her stepmother's latest paramour to determine if her stepmother is...
Carol Schneider, Robbin Schiff, Benjamin Dreyer, Alexa Cassanos, and Kate Niedzwiecki have been invaluable allies, as are, always, Jack Hitt, Mark Danner, and Allan Gurganus. Thanks also to Isaac Pollan for his encouragement and, ...
In On Desire, William B. Irvine takes us on a wide-ranging tour of our impulses, wants, and needs, showing us where these feelings come from and how we can try to rein them in.