家有青少年之父母生存手冊: 看懂孩子省話、衝動、敏感背後的祕密

ISBN-10: 9864796259
ISBN-13: 9789864796250
Category: Education / General
Pages: 224
Language: Russian
Published: 2019-01-30
Publisher: 遠見天下文化出版股份有限公司
Author: 彭菊仙

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這本書，就是家長版的「解憂雜貨店」，既能解憂，還有解方！
──歐陽立中，作家／教師

孩子長大了，父母也要進化！

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蘇明進（老ㄙㄨ老師）　作家、國小教師
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青春少男少女身心板塊都在劇烈變動，讓他們成為一種既不是小孩也不是大人的特別生物。許多家有青少年的家長一定有這樣的困擾――父母眼中的乖寶寶，到了青春期轉瞬變成難以溝通的怪小孩，家中氣氛從此丕變。

青少年難相處，情緒不穩、態度不佳、叛逆、自以為是……，他們到底在想什麼？父母如何與他們溝通？如何引導他們的學習與生活、維持良好的親子關係？

和青少年交手，絕對少不了衝突，父母當然要將傷害降到最低。但衝突也有其正面的功能，透過適當的衝突，爸媽才可能了解青少年的內心需求與變化，青少年也才有機會看到爸媽的焦慮與擔憂。

思念總在分手後、感謝總在長大時。且翻開這本書，開始修練！

青春期的孩子像座活火山，
父母就是火山周圍的居民，
一不留意就被炸得遍體鱗傷。
家有三個青春小子的彭菊仙，
陪你鍛鍊面對火山少年的勇氣，
掌握黃金守則，進化成父母2.0，
你會發現，青少年不是來討債的磨人精，
而是磨出爸媽智慧的金。

孩子長成青少年，親子之間可謂步步驚心。
守護穩固和諧的親子關係，父母要：

◤必備超能力

．不要玻璃心，要進化成強化玻璃
．火山少年爆發時，幻化出隱形金鐘罩護體
．火山少年爆走時，抽離靈魂暫呈無心無腦狀態
．當一盆在暗處悄悄散發光和熱的植物，默默陪伴
．成為一具心靈的「人肉沙包」，讓孩子宣洩壓力

◤黃金守則

．因為很重要，所以講「一」遍
．言教不如身教，身教不如境教
．把「規定」轉化為「約定」
．把青少年當成獨立的人來尊重
．最高境界──退化到不再被孩子需要

◤萬萬使不得

．與青少年硬碰硬、以暴制暴
．邊滑手機邊喊孩子去念書
．喋喋不休鬼打牆
．開口就談成績
．愛提當年勇

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